One of the questions we get asked most is, “Where should I have my birthday dinner?” Let us guess, you’re looking for something “fun” and not wildly expensive, where you can get a table for 12. Believe it or not, such restaurants do exist in New York City.
So whether your idea of fun involves tacos and dancing on tables (OK - we actually can’t help with the table-dancing), or a relaxed, come-and-go-whenever type of gathering, or something in between, we have some ideas. You only celebrate getting older once a year - better make it good.
Think back to your childhood birthday parties, and you might remember things like colorful wallpaper, big tables full of people, ice cream, and a kid named Jesse leaving early after peeing his pants playing laser tag. You’ll find all those things at Bombay Bread Bar in Soho (except for Jesse). This Indian spot was designed by the set director of multiple Wes Anderson movies, and the loud space has floor-to-ceiling murals of animals in business clothes, plus a big oven painted like a tiger. The 10 different types of bread coming out of that oven are very good, and all the food here, like bhelpuri with mango and peanuts, is perfect for sharing.
Llama Inn does its own take on Peruvian food, and the menu is excellent all around. If you feel like throwing down, by all means get the large-format beef tenderloin stir fry or whole branzino. Or just snack on some skewers, ceviche, and other small plates while drinking great cocktails (maybe get a pitcher - this place has a good energy, and you’ll want to keep up). If you have a summer birthday, take advantage of the roof.
You fantasized about a birthday dinner at Carbone, and even hired a TaskRabbit to make the reservation, but he somehow got confused by your directions to “EMAIL PROMPTLY AT 10AM.” Plus, your friends probably want to have some rent money left over after this dinner. So go to Bamonte’s, an old-school Italian spot in Williamsburg with a dining room that hasn’t been updated since the ’50s. The food here might not be as life-altering, but it’s certainly less expensive, and without places like this, Carbone wouldn’t exist in the first place.
If you really want to do something unique for your birthday, try Brooklyn Cider House. This Bushwick spot serves a $49 four-course prix-fixe in a huge room that looks like the dining hall at Hogwarts, and in between courses, your whole group will walk to a barrel room and catch cider as it pours out of vats the size of minivans. The cider is included in the prix-fixe, which your friends (who are graciously picking up the check) will probably appreciate.
You’re with a big group, but this year everyone seems more interested in “really having a chance to catch up” than listening to Drake while double-fisting tequila sodas. Shuka, a big Mediterranean spot in Soho, has plenty of room, and also never gets too rowdy. Plus, the menu has (highly shareable) options for everyone. Get some dips and kebabs, and settle in for that catch-up.
El Almacén is a safe choice, but that doesn’t mean it’s boring. Leave the magnums of Champagne with giant sparklers to everyone else, and come here for some steak that isn’t crazy-expensive, along with tacos and avocado fries. There’s also a nice back patio, and since place is in the middle of Williamsburg, there are a ton of bars within walking distance to keep the night going.
At Wu’s, you’ll be greeted by tanks filled with giant crabs, and waiters carrying steaming bowls of wonton soup from the kitchen. The dining room is full of big, round tables topped with lazy Susans, which makes the really good Chinese food here easy to share - and this spot is BYOB, so feel free to wheel in a cooler of beers or a case of riesling. When you’re done, move on to 169 Bar a few doors down.
You need an outdoor space for 20 friends, but you don’t want a hotel rooftop where the doorman will keep half of them outside for an hour to make it look like there’s a line. City Vineyard is a restaurant and wine bar on the river in Tribeca, and the huge rooftop has enough seating and standing room for half your Instagram followers. Spend a few hours sharing bar food and house wine on tap while watching the sun set on the Hudson (and your youth).
Quality Eats is one of the most fun steakhouses in NYC. Come here when you want to eat not-insanely-expensive steak and bacon and a patty melt with your friends, in a really fun environment, and you don’t want anyone to be able to say it’s inconvenient. Finish your meal with a birthday cake sundae. That’s why it exists.
Your friends claim to love karaoke, but still give lame excuses like “being too sober” just about every time it comes up. It’ll be hard for them to do that after Korean BBQ at Insa in Gowanus - first of all, because there are private karaoke rooms conveniently located right in the back of the restaurant, and secondly, because it’s your birthday and they have to do what you say.
The Upper West Side has places to celebrate a 50th birthday with someone who has multiple mink coats, and places to chest bump after beating 21-year-olds in beer pong. But when you just want a place to drink margaritas, eat tacos, and talk at a normal volume, head to Playa Betty’s. Pack your table with snacks (like warm chips with queso and the tater tot nachos) to proactively balance out the beer pong you’ll end up playing later.
Last year you picked a place where the food kind of sucked, and if you do it again, your friends are going to delete your number. This year, go to Emmy Squared, where you can get some truly exceptional Detroit-style pizzas and wash them down with fried chicken sandwiches. Just be sure to make a reservation, and, if you’re a big party, try to snag the communal table.
Tijuana Picnic checks all the boxes off the mid-20s birthday list: It’s on the Lower East Side, there are good tacos and strong margaritas, and there’s a downstairs bar that gets rowdy around 11pm. You’ll probably spend a lot on alcohol, but that’s what mid-20s birthdays are for.
Walk by Patrizia’s on a weekend evening, and you’ll see a large number of people waiting outside. Most of those people will be in big groups, and the majority of those groups will there to celebrate a birthday. Why did they choose Patrizia’s? Because of the $50 family-style prix fixe that includes unlimited wine. The red-sauce Italian food is decent, and everyone gets to wave their napkin around whenever someone sings “Happy Birthday.” If you stop by without a reservation, there might be a wait - but the host will pour you some free wine, so it’s a win/win.
Uncle Boons isn’t particularly spacious, but it’s worth keeping your invite list small if it means being able to eat here - this place serves some of the best Thai food in the city. Along with the thick, rich, and generally phenomenal khao soi, be sure to get a pitcher of house cocktails and the coconut sundae, which is in our NYC dessert hall of fame.
Everyone loves the non-committal concept of tapas restaurants - and they make a lot of sense for birthday gatherings where people don’t want to order a whole roast chicken. But so many tapas places are, like their food, very small. Cata is large, takes reservations, and has a whole menu of gin and tonics for your Spanish drinking pleasure.
Kang Ho Dong Baekjeong does some excellent Korean BBQ. Waiters roam through the large space, cooking meat for groups on the grills in front of them, and energy levels at this K-Town spot are always high. Waits can be long, but if you’d rather not deal with that, try to book the private room upstairs.
In any group dinner situation, there’s bound to be at least one person with strong opinions about eating formerly-living creatures. Rather than making them feel bad or allowing them to pick a place that puts amaranth brittle on half the entrees, reserve a table at Modern Love. This Williamsburg spot is entirely vegan, but their versions of global comfort foods, like BBQ cauliflower wings and Caribbean jerk tofu, are as filling and tasty as traditional versions around the city.
Bring a crew to this East Village spot and coat your stomach with some very good pizza and spaghetti, without spending too much money. They’ll even let you book a table online for your group of 20. Lil’ Frankies never fails.
If you’re less interested in watching your friends’ expressions as they drink overly sugary cocktails, and more interested in what happens when they taste food that blows their minds, you should strongly consider a birthday dinner at Casa Enrique. This Mexican spot in LIC is one of our all-time favorite restaurants, and worth a trip from any neighborhood. Summer babies, keep the nice outdoor patio in mind.
While the space at Kings County Imperial’s original location isn’t huge, there are a few big booths with lazy Susans that are perfect for a birthday. Plus, there’s pretty much always a crowd here, and it’s very easy to go out afterwards (Union Pool and Night of Joy are super close).
Maybe you’re looking for less of a sit-down dinner, and more of an open house, come-and-go-as-you-please situation. Threes Brewing is perfect. This is a giant space on the Gowanus/Park Slope border with plenty of seating (plus a prime back patio for warmer months), tons of great housemade beers on tap (plus cocktails and wine), and food from The Meat Hook (including one of the best burgers around).
If the temptation to have a birthday party at Catch or Tao is pulling at you, consider turning your attention eastward to Blue Ribbon Sushi Izakaya instead. It’s a party restaurant with a huge menu to suit pretty much anyone, but it’s on the Lower East Side, and it’s a bit more low-key than those spots in Meatpacking. There’s also a beer garden attached to it, and it has ping pong tables.
Here’s a great way to spend your birthday: eat our favorite BBQ in the city. If ridiculously good brisket and beef ribs aren’t enough, then head next door to Brooklyn Crab and play a few games of corn hole.
There are a lot of great reasons for Turntable Chicken Jazz to host your next birthday party. The most compelling? Lava Lamp Beer Pitchers. Beyond those, there is also extremely crowd-pleasing food (Korean fried chicken wings, bulgogi burgers, potatoes on a stick), a DJ playing Top 40, and a central K-Town location adjacent to all the karaoke you could ever want.
La Esquina opened in 2005, and even after all these years, it’s still a great place to celebrate something. It’s hidden behind a secret door in a Nolita taqueria, and it feels kind of like a nice dungeon full of happy people and tequila. The Mexican food is perfectly good (especially the barbacoa tacos), but you mainly come here to drink, people watch, and get a big sparkler in your dessert on your birthday.