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Where To Eat With A New Friend When You Don’t Want It To Feel Awkward

PHOTO: Karolina Wiercigroch

Somehow, despite your penchant for crossing A-roads when someone you recognise is walking towards you on the pavement, you’ve made a new friend. No, we don’t know how either. Drunken end of week pub conversations can only go so far though. How about you do something that’s actually, like, nice? A weird idea for Londoners, we know. We tend to have two modes. Pour your heart out after a few drinks, or climb eight flights of stairs to avoid getting in the lift with them on Monday. But we’re saying sod off to that.

We’ve split our new friend meal options into three sections. For new friends you usually get drunk with, for new friends you don’t want to go in too heavy with, and for new friends you just want to go somewhere safe with.

where to go with new friends you usually get drunk with


You’ve been merrily chatting to each other at the pub for the past few weekends, and now it’s time to take this potential friendship to the next level. Without saying that, obviously. Play it safe and head to B.A.M. It’s got a partyish atmosphere that will keep things familiarly loud and drink-fuelled. The food is anything but safe, which is a useful go-to in case you’re worried about the conversation faltering without ten other people to bounce off of, and ten drinks inside of you.

Photo: Karolina Wiercigroch

Freak Scene

54 Frith Street

Shoring up a friendship is like mixing concrete. Your personalities are the cement. They’re gonna keep you together. But at the start it’s not quite enough. You need some liquid as well. High percentage liquid. Then you need a few different solids to keep you going. No, we’re not suggesting you eat gravel. What we’re saying is go to Freak Scene. This Soho restaurant serves up fun pan-Asian food alongside a funky soundtrack. And drinking is heavily encouraged. It’s the perfect mix.

E. Pellicci

Bethnal Green
332 Bethnal Green Rd

There is nothing, absolutely nothing, more unifying than a hungover fry up. It’s what turns a casual friendship into a solid one. It’s an hour long conversation in itself. Do hash browns belong on the plate? Should beans be separated by a dam of bacon or in a separate bowl? This is, basically, the thing you should be doing with your new friend. E. Pellicci is the place do it.


Nothing says we’re-friends-but-we’re-not-quite-share-a-carafe-of-wine-and-three-courses-friends quite like a sandwich, does it? Max’s is an ideal casual dinner spot that’s full of friends and couples popping in for a quick and delicious meal. The sandwiches here are proper plates of food between two slices, so don’t be concerned about going home hungry. It’s impossible not to feel at ease here, and that’s just what you want.

Photo: Karolina Wiercigroch

where to go with new friends you don't want to scare away


The beauty of suggesting going to Ozone is that it is, by name, a coffee shop. It probably isn’t a change from the norm. As such, it’s the perfect suggestion for someone you probably haven’t sat down with, one-on-one, for over an hour before. Both of you are in the non-committal, and relaxed mindset of going for a coffee. But this place can mark a change. Before you know it you’ll be eating kedgeree and roasted cauliflower, and both saying, on loop, ‘I just can’t believe this is a coffee shop’. Believe it.

Roti King

40 Doric Way

Arguably London’s best cheap eat, Roti King is an excellent first mate-date spot. It’s cheap, cheerful, and, if the other person isn’t sure about it you know they’re a wrong’un. A basic roti with curry dhall is just a fiver, which keeps things accessibly priced. Plus it’s in between Euston and Kings Cross, meaning you have plenty of escape routes in case any unexpected and unwelcome political views start getting aired.

No matter how well you get on a with a new pal, a meal can still feel like a bit of a leap. You don’t want to feel shackled to the table when, out of the blue, they start talking about their passion for medieval cosplay. That’s why heading to Spitalfields is the perfect casual in between. There are a load of different stalls from great restaurants, so you can get anything from a reuben to sit down meal at the counter, and there’s plenty of distraction for if (or when) the conversation gets weird.


Xi’an is the undisputed champion of the casual but cool meal that will have the other person saying ‘I can’t believe I’ve never been here before’. This is probably the best northern Chinese food in London, and it’s cheap as chips. Make sure you get the cold noodles, and the chicken in ginger sauce, and biang biang noodles. Basically get lots, and reap the compliments. N.b. there are no chips here.

Photo: Holly Liss

where to go with new friends you just want to have a nice time with

Ciao Bella

86-90 Lamb's Conduit St

You wanna be good mates with this person, not marry them. Don’t scare them off by organising to go somewhere fancy-schmancy, but don’t get a pack of Kettle Chips and suggest a park bench either. Ciao Bella is a good in between. It’s an old-school Italian that serves up big plates of pasta alongside cheap and cheerful wine. Plus, it’s a few doors down from Noble Rot on Lamb’s Conduit Street, meaning a day or a nightcap is going to happen.


45 Lexington St

First it was at Friday night drinks, then it was in the Whatsapp group, and now your iMessages are popping off. This is amazing. It’s a bond. Only you’re not attracted to them in the slightest. It’s like dating, but without the stress. It’s like your relationship with your dog, but you don’t have to clean up after them. One thing though, they just said they’re vegetarian. Don’t stress. Mildred’s is where you want to be anyway. Not only is it completely vegetarian, but this old school Soho spot has a got a lovely laidback atmosphere as well.

There are only three things that truly bring people together in this world. Talking about the weather, laughing at someone dropping their food in public, and pizza. The third of these is perfect for you and your new b.f.f., and Theo’s serves some of London’s finest. This is one of Camberwell’s best neighbourhood restaurants, and it’ll become ‘your thing’ instantly. We can think of worse things than regular pizza-and-negronis dates.

Photo: Karolina Wiercigroch


167 Upper Street

Find us a person who doesn’t like drinking wine, and eating ham and cheese. Go on. We dare you. If you do, don’t introduce us. We don’t want to know them. And neither should you. Llerena is Islington’s most wholesome and relaxed tapas restaurant. It’s very hard not to have a nice time here, especially when there’s a lot of iberico ham involved.

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